I was told yesterday that I was spoiled! Should I be upset? Would you be?
I would say to just give her a little time to cool down, but eventually you guys are going to need to talk, she is going to need you. She’s just a little bitter right now that your life has turned out so much better than hers. I think the fact that your husband thought up such a nice thing to do made her jealous beyond her control and thats what provoked her tantrum. You still have time to make up, I would let your mom know its not set in stone that she is going yet so if your friend changes her mind, it doesnt upset your mom. Divorce is really hard (Ive never been through one but my aunt has been through a couple and my best friend went through one recently, and I was the one they talked to) sometimes they need someone to take their anger out on and it ends up being the person they are closest with, I think somewhere in the back of their mind they do it to someone they know will forgive them.